Feb18

Workplace whiners

Author // Gloria Plaisted Categories // Faith@Work Break Print

Why me, Lord? Why do I always get stuck doing the grunt work? I do more and get less. And while I’m at it, Lord, I’m sick and tired of being sick and tired. I’m wearing myself down putting in more waking hours than anyone else in this company and no one even notices. And why are the lights so bright in here?

Do you ever find yourself in a real honest-to-goodness gripe session with God? Grumbling to God is good in that it shows dependence on Him. After all, if we have a complaint we should voice it to the One who cares about us more than anyone.

But in today’s workplace there’s been a shift in complaining. More and more we are justifying the gripes and granting ourselves permission to brazenly vocalize our dissatisfaction.

Issues such as company regulations, our boss, crazy colleagues and workload have been bothering us since man put tool to stone, but as time goes on we’re getting louder at it. Remember Mom shouting, “Quit’cher bellyaching”? The word “bellyaching” means to complain in a whining manner over and over again. The repetition and irritating sound it produces comes with force from way down in the belly. (OK, that part is my conclusion.)

And if you’re really observant, you’ll notice our gigs of griping always include faultfinding and can lead to insubordination and a defiant attitude at our jobs, not to mention the fact that our faces get distorted -- making us downright ugly.

God took the sin of complaining seriously. After 400 years serving as slaves in bitter bondage to Egypt, God used Moses to lead roughly 2 million Israelites out of their lives of slavery. Well, it wasn’t but a couple of months on the road and they began to question God’s motives. Yes, when the going got tough, it started a contagious snowball of whining and rebellion. Yet, in spite of their bellyaching, the Lord went before them every step. He opened the sea, kept them from sunburn and swollen feet, provided manna, (free bread from Heaven!) quail and water -- including the land He promised.

Unfortunately, the Promised Land came later than sooner. God had the people wander in the wilderness for 40 long years for their sins, one of which was complaints against one another and God.

Bottom line? Grumblings of complaint question God’s sovereignty in our life. It’s like saying, “God, you blew it.”

Numbers 11:1-2 says: “Now the people became like those who complain about adversity in the hearing of the Lord; and when the Lord heard it, His anger was kindled, and the fire of the Lord burned among them and consumed some of the outskirts of the camp.”

Today, while at work, spend more time on a solution, not the problem at hand. When negativity sets in, shift your focus on productivity and how you can model positive leadership. Bellyaching can weaken our faith@workas well as negatively affect those working around our influence. Charles Spurgeon put it so eloquently, “Faultfinding is dreadfully catching, one dog will set a whole kennel howling.”

I don’t know about you, but I don’t want to be that dog.

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About the Author

Gloria Plaisted

Gloria Plaisted, CFE joined the Living Stones News staff in March 2006 as columnist for her “Faith@ Work Break.” She also hosted Faith@Work Breaks on Christian radio, which aired daily. Gloria is CEO & President of Son Group, LLC. Gloria and Rick, her husband of 41 years, are multi-unit, multi-brand franchisees and have hired over 25k employees in their 35 years of doing business. As a CFE, (Certified Franchise Executive) Gloria writes and speaks in the franchise industry as well as mentoring new up and coming entrepreneurs. Gloria and Rick live on the shore of Lake Superior with their golden retriever Brinkley. They have three adult children and five grandchildren. Gloria loves to quilt, (more of a fabric enthusiast) read  magazines from back to front and spend Minnesota warmer months casting for walleyes. (I don’t do leeches)

“I encourage your feedback. Feel free to share your workplace challenges or experiences. Write to me at faithatwork08@gmail.com


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